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Make a list of what I'm looking for / what is important to me in a relationship
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It's important to me to clarify that I wrote this list as what I want in a partner and what I expect from myself before even thinking about getting into a partnership.
compassion/empathy, humour, trust/vulnerability, positivity, respect, boundaries, love, honesty, communication, dependability, presence, open-minded, patient/tolerant, a sense of ease, gratitude
I looked and all these words and at first, I thought it was a lot. But, looking it over again, it's a lot of words but I think this is what a healthy relationship has and are simple qualities I want to see in the people I surround myself with, especially a partner.
compassion/empathy, humour, trust/vulnerability, positivity, respect, boundaries, love, honesty, communication, dependability, presence, open-minded, patient/tolerant, a sense of ease, gratitude
I looked and all these words and at first, I thought it was a lot. But, looking it over again, it's a lot of words but I think this is what a healthy relationship has and are simple qualities I want to see in the people I surround myself with, especially a partner.
- Doesn't smoke
- Animal lover
- Supportive
- Loves traveling
- Want kids
- Good sense of humor
- Financially stable
- Faithful
- Honest
- Committed
- Animal lover
- Supportive
- Loves traveling
- Want kids
- Good sense of humor
- Financially stable
- Faithful
- Honest
- Committed
Working through two "relatinship" books. 1. Calling in the one 2. Married in 365
1. Enjoys movies
2. Loves dogs
3. Is open and honest
4. Committed
5. Supportive
I feel like some of these are whats necessary anyway. Guessing lack of these is why my previous relationship failed.
2. Loves dogs
3. Is open and honest
4. Committed
5. Supportive
I feel like some of these are whats necessary anyway. Guessing lack of these is why my previous relationship failed.
MUST HAVES!! I am no longer going to settle! I am fine with being in a relationship with myself until I find the right guy :)
1) Out
2) Christian
3) Liberal
4) Intellectual---actively literate, is curious about things
5) Has a career, not a job
6) Likes books and movies
7) Loves dogs
8) Understands that I need alone time and hopefully she needs same
9) Is kind
10) Has a good sense of humor
11) Doesn't want kids
12) Politically minded
13) Lives/wants to live in New York
2) Christian
3) Liberal
4) Intellectual---actively literate, is curious about things
5) Has a career, not a job
6) Likes books and movies
7) Loves dogs
8) Understands that I need alone time and hopefully she needs same
9) Is kind
10) Has a good sense of humor
11) Doesn't want kids
12) Politically minded
13) Lives/wants to live in New York
PSD!
MSA June 2012
MSA June 2012
1. intelligent
2. adventurous
3. likes me for me, not just physical aspects of me
4. taller than me when i'm in heels
5. able to have comfortable silences
6. consistent
7. family man - close to his/ wants a family eventually
8. handsome
9. gentleman - opens doors (building and car)
10. willing to travel
11. willing to try new things
12. financially stable
13. can be romantic
14. not against giving me space sometimes
15. supportive of me and my career
16. has plans for the future
17. dresses nicely
18. respectful
19. can adapt to different settings
20. honest
21. faithful
22. kisses well
23. someone i can talk to
2. adventurous
3. likes me for me, not just physical aspects of me
4. taller than me when i'm in heels
5. able to have comfortable silences
6. consistent
7. family man - close to his/ wants a family eventually
8. handsome
9. gentleman - opens doors (building and car)
10. willing to travel
11. willing to try new things
12. financially stable
13. can be romantic
14. not against giving me space sometimes
15. supportive of me and my career
16. has plans for the future
17. dresses nicely
18. respectful
19. can adapt to different settings
20. honest
21. faithful
22. kisses well
23. someone i can talk to
4th April
I'm glad to see that I'm certain about what I would like in a relationship. I hope to be in my ideal relationship/marriage in the future someday.
I think I need this because another goal I have (that I don't think I'll bother adding to my 101) is to stay single until "it" comes along. It'll be easier to say "no" if I know that what I'm being offered isn't what I want. I'm going to have to think long and hard about the "criteria" though.
Completed March 8th, 2012
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