a goal on day zero
Learn to say no to things that don't align with my purpose
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Lately, I've been really saying no to things that don't align with my purpose.
But it's so hard!
It doesn't feel good right on the spot.
It feels like quitting, like not being reliable.
Like giving up.
Honestly, on some level, I've been feeling like a loser for leaving a situation.
Or even worse, I've been feeling mean and evil.
Growing pains, I guess. I've been told: "it feels so bad because you're practicing the right 'muscle'".
I haven't exercize my "saying no" muscle enough, it hurts like hell to use it.
But it's so hard!
It doesn't feel good right on the spot.
It feels like quitting, like not being reliable.
Like giving up.
Honestly, on some level, I've been feeling like a loser for leaving a situation.
Or even worse, I've been feeling mean and evil.
Growing pains, I guess. I've been told: "it feels so bad because you're practicing the right 'muscle'".
I haven't exercize my "saying no" muscle enough, it hurts like hell to use it.
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